Honesty is a device then, based on a particular observation. You are not honest?
A lie can also be a device, as Buddha shows by telling one person there is a God and another there isn't... it is still based on an observation, he has seen that both have made conclusions not based on experience.
Lying and honesty are extremes, I do not strive for any particular duality, I strive to maintain a balance, to remain centered.
People integrate as they choose, but first they must interact.
Through interaction, if you are not already centered you become easily swayed by what they say. You can never be authentic until you drop everything others have instilled in you.
You do not see this as being true, this is our primary disagreement.
So, you want my judgment on something?
I would like you to see for yourself that your judgement is meaningless, that is only possible if you encounter it yourself though.
Explain why you say it is false... how can falsehood become genuine?
As you say there is nothing good, is there something foul? Meditation is clearly not good then, as you say there is no such thing as good.
I have not said meditation is good, I have said it is useful but if you cling too much to meditation it is as bad as anything else. If you define yourself as a meditator, it is no less unhealthy than any identification.
Theft, rape, murder, dishonesty, etc... are not only ok with me, and I will call them being evil. If for example rape: sex against your will, is perfectly fine with you, then to each his own.
Doing against another is never ok, but it is a disease caused by sexual repression - it has to be understood. Society teaches that promiscuity is bad, we go on highlighting sex, taking advantage of the repression to sell things. It is deeply unhealthy, but rape is a symptom, the rapist is as much a victim as the raped.
Communication can not be anything but periphery, sex is utterly peripheral, what part of interacting for you is not peripheral? You cannot read anothers mind, you cannot feel what another is feeling - you can at best approximate based on their words.
Then you do not speak with honesty or truth, nor dishonesty or lies, for you have no responsibility for your words.
I'd say you are finally getting it, but something tells me you are being sarcastic here. Without language, what is honesty? Without language, what is truth? They simply do not exist at all, they are definitions that man has created.
I have not viewed Buddha as dishonest, though you may claim he had a dishonest forked tongue.
Well then you have ignored something very important about Buddha... you cannot try to understand him based on your current beliefs, I have provided an example of his lies - there is no malice though, this is to be understood, he has lied to help the seeker.
Interesting belief, but a total fabrication.
It is not a fabrication at all, Christianity is a Bhakti tradition, Buddhism is a Jnana tradition. Bhakti fills you with love, you a building something up. Jnana creates understanding, you become nothingness which is exactly what nirvana means. It is like going into the front or back door, they are opposite pursuits but you arrive in the same house. Bhakti is for the feminine energy, Jnana is for the masculine, it is an important distinction - the duality of religion.
We will probably never agree on this subject because you are a female and I am a male... you can discuss with a feminine male, one that engages with a Bhakti tradition and has sacrificed his masculinity, but this isn't what nature wants. It is desirable that the opposites merge, not that two of the same go deeper in that direction. That is what people go on saying is chemistry in relationships, a perfect blend of masculine and feminine energy.
That said, I am still filled with love upon arrival to the home, it is just that I have gotten there in a different way.
You teach that a child is nothing, but you are mistaken.
I said nothing of the sort, I have simply inferred that the child is a clean slate... it lacks conclusions, society has not yet corrupted it.
The child is still innocent.