Hi Paladin —
I'm beginning to learn that sharing the truth as I understand it is a touchy thing really.
Well it can draw close to 'who I am', or at least 'how I see myself'.
(Aside: I am of the firm opinion that one of the reasons there are few, if any, serious orthodox of the mainstream traditions here — why
actual 'interfaith' is as rare as rocking horse poo here at IO — is that the most frequent posters tend to dismiss the beliefs of others with glib and often frankly offensive assumptions, stereotyping them in a way that would be unacceptable if the issue was colour, ethnic background, sexual orientation. I am constantly gob-smacked at how prejudice is permitted in the 'robust' spirit of conversation, but when the prejudice is pointed out, oh dear, watch how the cry goes up ... )
First of all, for all I know there is something I'm missing, and I'm not being mindful of the real argument going on underneath.
That is my approach to other traditions. I find some of the 'positions' of the Eastern Orthodox highly questionable, I find the contemporary ideas of reincarnation rather sentimental, etc., but I tend to proceed on the axiom that if it doesn't make sense, I haven't understood it properly ... and the same goes for the secular argument.
Also, I tend to reserve any real effort to help someone understand something unless it appears that they have the cognitive resources to hear and understand (though not necessarily accept) what I'm saying.
Now that I am going to have inscribed across the top of my monitor. That is gold-dust. That, for me, is a slap-the-forehead, light-bulb-popping, realisation. I cannot thank you enough, you've saved me time, blood-pressure ...
For example, you and I might not always agree, but I always have the sense that you really think about what I've written, and that makes me want to respect you all the more.
The feeling is mutual, let me assure you.
Cognitive resources refers not only to the ability to understand, but more importantly, how much a person's resources are not already being used in another area, such as attending to a rigid schema about something which means that cognitively, they are much less likely to be able to attend to what I'm attempting to communicate.
I've conflated two posts here ... but that, in my book, is worth repeating.
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In the context of 'what I believe', I have not touched on that here for some years. All I tend to argue is that what is
generally believed by the
informed elements of the Tradition, and why that is reasonable, rational and logical, according to its axioms.