The old traditional “flesh” and “spirit?” Flesh/matter(classical objects) tends towards wave function collapse? Spirit tends towards greater quantum coherence, wavelike characteristics. Akin to the Biblical reference to people being clothed in light, lit up?
Are you sure you understand the old traditional 'flesh' (Gk:
sarx) and 'spirit' (Gk:
pneuma), and have you factored in 'body (Gk:
soma?
From a Buddhist perspective, I would suggest your dependence on Quantum Physics top explain something that isn't Quantum Physics is an example of:
"As he attends inappropriately in this way, one of six kinds of view arises in him: The view I have a self arises in him as true & established, or the view I have no self... or the view It is precisely by means of self that I perceive self... or the view It is precisely by means of self that I perceive not-self... or the view It is precisely by means of not-self that I perceive self arises in him as true & established, or else he has a view like this: This very self of mine — the knower that is sensitive here & there to the ripening of good & bad actions — is the self of mine that is constant, everlasting, eternal, not subject to change, and will stay just as it is for eternity. This is called a thicket of views, a wilderness of views, a contortion of views, a writhing of views, a fetter of views. Bound by a fetter of views, the uninstructed run-of-the-mill person is not freed from birth, aging, & death, from sorrow, lamentation, pain, distress, & despair. He is not freed, I tell you, from suffering & stress."
(Sabbasava Sutta: All the Fermentations, I, 5)
I offer this, freely accepting that my own theological investigations fall under the same rubric.
I like your be your own guru theme.
Here you would have a hard job in an Abrahamic arena, and typically a hard one in the Hindu/Buddhist sense ... I'm not sure
@Aupmanyav is 'run-of-the-mill' with regard to his own religion, and his expression of theological concepts, of course I could be wrong, as forums are notoriously difficult methods of communication – so
mea culpa if I misread there.
Suggests that the ability to get flesh and spirit to integrate may be an inherent skill we can activate. Others may help point the way, but we have to activate/use that integrative skill. Others can’t do it for us. Some would call the skill “faith.” I’m okay with that, as long as it is not confused with cognitive “belief.”
OK, but that's the
preparation for a spiritual engagement, it's not the engagement.
Once the engagement has begun, then the need of a guru is a given in nigh-on every traditional spiritual practice.
The term means 'mentor, guide, expert, or master' (I'm told). I rather prefer the Greek Orthodox
geronda or Russian Orthodox
staretz, both of which simply mean 'elder', but imply the need for someone with some experience to guide the novice and, hopefully, read the signs of their spiritual passage, with its ups and downs. The western term, 'spiritual director' is rather forensic and not to my taste.
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An analogy: I once heard someone talking about the trapeze. The classic and pure trapeze act is the flyer and catcher. The flyer does all the tricks, the catcher ... catches ... but it is the catcher who watches the timing, and it's the catcher who calls when to let go ... the worst mistake a flyer can make is try to catch the catcher. The flyer just has to trust in the catcher.
The
geronda is a bit like the catcher ... their job is to watch and monitor (as a trainer does an athlete). You need an external observer because 'the last to see it is you' and because there's no-one so easy to fool as ourselves.
Lastly, of course, human nature is open to the higher orders, but cannot simply up sticks and walk in. Nothing one can do can cause that, all one can do is make oneself ready and truth, in hope and faith, that it will happen. And oftentimes, it happens when it's least expected.
As the Buddhist says: Before enlightenment, chop wood, carry water. After enlightenment, chop wood, carry water.
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