I should probably explain. First, I disagree with Paladin's OP. I would like to understand righteousness or God's judgement and I often judge and point out differences with other people, religions, or beliefs in my pursuit. So, I am rushing to be right... right with God, right for myself, and right for others. I have noticed a prideful ear will hear me as, "I'm right, you are wrong" and take offense. When someone takes pride in their opinion or state of mind then I have seen it literally stated in words, "I'm right" or "You are wrong". When some who are raised with high expectations in a religious family and feel they can convert others with words or feel the need to defend their beliefs or religion, it can come across as, "I'm right, you are wrong". If I rebuke someone for something they've said or done it can also come across as, "I'm right, you are wrong".
When I hear a, "I'm right, you are wrong" what I hear instead is, "You are different than me or us", which is always a true statement since everyone is different. I like to be rebuked because it provides more information than a shower of praise. In a former post I was trying to draw physics into it, but I find that "right or wrong" really translate to "same or different", usually between what two people think or believe. The intention may be to compare against scripture or religion, but interpretations vary. But I stand to learn something new if someone tells me why I am different than them rather than the same.
I am a Freemason. I joined it to learn more about the beliefs. I was playing with words there with a real and different definition between 'Right' and 'Rite' because the different Rites, or degrees end up being ceremonial with rote memorization. By being a secret organization I find there is also little interest in comparison with the world and there is little interest in the judgement of the rites. The discussion of religious beliefs is discouraged outside of the rote memorization of the ceremony, degrees, or rites... allegedly to keep the peace between, 'brothers'.
I think it really applies to any religious ceremony, but especially with the Freemasons I found extensive rote memorization and it is that which I find brings deafness. While a ceremony will be memorized, it is kind of the same thing as a lecture. I find that it just doesn't get applied to the real world unless a person judges the information. I think it is better to ask each other questions and to challenge people to answer them. The reason is that in trying to answer questions a person actually applies themselves, the soul. There is no autopilot in answering questions and the answers have to come a little from within or by developing listening techniques to find them in the world. The ears open up and the soul emerges. For this very reason I believe it is why a person has to make judgements. It is a requirement to judge situations or the thoughts of others even if it is just to say, "I agree" or "I disagree". When the soul uses information and makes a determination then there is something inherently good there. Just one of the keys, but for a person only reading books and studying a religion, there may be something missing.
To use an anology of what I see, today there is cruise control on a car and with a few more features some day maybe the car will drive itself. Then what will the driver do? Punch in coordinates like an aircraft on autopilot? The driver is no longer entirely responsible... the vehicle is. If a car were to drive itself then the person would become less tuned into the situations on the road. To me, that is the relationship between the soul and the mind. The ceremony does not involve the soul action which is more important than the state of the mind. While the rush to be rite, ceremonial right, might be the desire to learn the information, for many it is the desire to be the same or to be stamped in and included in the group. So the ceremony is attractive, develops, and feels good... but at the expense of the ears and one's judgement. Whereas I tend to join a group and point out what I see different. Yes, I know, a real crowd pleaser. Lets just say that my involvement has been non-normal and I intend to raise more issues within that organization.
It is my firm belief that a person has to judge situations, self, and other people. I know it is NOT what people like. I know the word just conflicts with Paul in Christianity and common political correctness people enforce. I like to be judged. Please judge my words. The Christian verse, "Do not judge, and you will not be judged" takes on a different meaning for me... I seek God's judgement.