Gatekeeper
Shades of Reason
It may be a help to be able to believe, as I do, that everyone is making the degree of progress that they are supposed to be making at any given point in time. They may think they are achieving it because of their "free" will. But I find strength in being able to believe that it is because of God's will for each unique individual.
As the Bible puts it,
“God works ALL things according to the counsel of His own will” Ephesians 1:11
Not all things minus our so called "free" will.
We were 'predestined' according to Gods will to experience evil in this life, but each individuals life is not predetermined. Meaning that we are not on rails, man. We can change direction at our choosing.
Sure, we are influenced by many things, but it is our hearts desire that we choose in the end. You speak as if everyone will escape the calamity in life, yet not all do. Some remain in the thralls of hell simply because they haven't enough faith in themselves to change. God shines his light, but it is up to us to take off the shades. He doesn't force His will upon our will, which is why evil exists in the first place.
GK