Aren't we all in the eyes of others?
I am not discussion perceptions, I am saying he is measurably insane - any psychologist or doctor would confirm it.
You like arguing this point, let me replace it with "material".
Physical means "of or relating to mind" according to the dictionary, the energy does not originate in mind, mind is a result of the energy. This is a topic which is off topic though.
The soul is not necessarily sick, and neither are the choices. To be loving, to have faith, to be honest, are choices that require the soul.
The soul is not real, so it cannot be sick. Choices are always sick because of the process of choosing, you are picking half at most - perhaps there are more choices, then it is a choice even less than half. You cannot love with half your being, it must be total. Faith, again, not something that can be half. Honesty simply cannot exist in half, if it is not completely true it is a lie.
You are right though, the perception of choice, the confusion is from soul. Soul is ego is mind, totality is only possible through heart.
So you have experience? Yes you do. According to your words you have rejected the heart for the mind. The solution is not to reject the mind, but to increase the do. Do good. Do love. Do give. Do serve. Do rebuke. Do forgive. Do seek. Do confess. Do embrace others in relationships. To do requires, minimally: brain and heart.
How have you concluded that I have dropped heart for mind? No, I am simply saying that with you these things are coming from mind instead of heart. Heart does not have motives, it does not have purpose, it simply does. Mind is always planning, very cunning, always it wants to find that which will be most beneficial.
How can you do if mind is still considering which is better to do? No, it is heart that jumps, that decides that mind is being stupid and dives into doing.
When I say mind, I mean the physical brain and any and all conscious and unconscious activity in it. The brain is not necessarily the origination of thoughts. I make very little distinction between brain and mind, but thoughts can come from many people, genes, experience, and spirits. The subconscious can similarly be put to task.
See, you can be conscious of the activity, but consciousness is not of brain. Many mystics say body-mind - they make no distinction at all. Unconsciousness is simply the result of repression, suppression, this is dangerous. Consciousness is not mind, consciousness is a drop of the ultimate.
I was raised with the ice-berg image. Consciousness is the portion of brain that you see on top. Subconscious is the portion of your brain activity that you don't see.
Then what is watching mind? When you are up late at night trying to sleep and mind keeps on racing, what is observing that mind won't quiet itself? Whatever you call this, this is what I refer to as consciousness.
This is another problem, you don't try to understand what is being said, you are too much stuck on your current set of concepts - it makes it difficult to communicate with you.
By your words for love, faith, and honesty, it appears your mind has been the "yes", and the heart has been the "no".
I am guessing this is a perception founded on something I corrected above, you have gotten it backwards though.
To the contrary, there is far more at play than what we see. By your words you really wish to be conscious of everything, and having a little you want more. You don't like for there to be something unconscious and away from your view. What is unconscious to us is still conscious to others, including God. Like an unconscious mind you consider me to be a motor boat, a voice of dissension towards what you seek. I am happy with the fact that there is a great deal of mind that I am unconscious of. I might look into someone's eyes and have zero clue of what they are thinking. I can and I do make use of the unconscious mind, the conscious minds of others, by asking questions and setting it to task.
I am simply responding to you, I have no perception of your motives whatsoever. I am trying to help you through my words, but you do not yet understand so more dialog must be maintained. I am seeking no result, I only perceive in you a certain interest which I am glad to be subject to.
Also, because I repress nothing, because I act totally, there is nothing which occurs unconsciously. I cannot allow it to be moved into the unconscious because as you say this too you are responsible for. You are free to test this as much as you please.
You tell me, what are you hoping to get in return from friends?
I consider it wrong to take, and good to ask and seek agreement.
Nothing is as plain as simply labeling it as wrong, through compromise though, you are settling for half. You should not impede on others, they must be willing, but when you start cutting yourself into sections you are planting the seeds of enmity, both will be unhappy because neither has gotten what they want.
You will say this is selfish, you are perfectly right if we analyse the word: it simply means being yourself. Whenever you are not authentic, you are committing a crime against yourself. Jesus says love your neighbor as yourself, you cannot love another unless you love yourself first though. Through compromise you are saying you are not worthy of being fully content, half is all you're worth.