You do seem to go out of your way to criticise and ridicule Gatekeepers view of hell. Which I don't think is the point of the thread and ridicule isn't the point of this forum.
If I were you, I would reconsider the ownership of a belief. I do not believe Gatekeeper has said anywhere that he has manufactured his view of heaven or hell. If he did, then I submit that it would be his, and not Christian.
You are welcome to praise or rag on the viewpoints that I express all you want, because I regard them as viewpoints that should be challenged, and sometimes ridiculed. What if I came here and said that it was good to rape women, and then decried anyone that spoke against my belief? From my perspective if I did that, I would be a bit of a hypocrite.
As I read it, Gatekeeper had a few words for his cuz's beliefs, and I did have a few words for the beliefs that Gatekeeper expressed. Not out of spite, out of interest. If someone drops the racquet and stops hitting the balls, I am happy to stop returning or serving them. I enjoy playing a bit of tennis... who said we can't all win? If anyone says my volley is foul, I am content to not play. I can be kept exceedingly busy elsewhere.
I don't understand Luecy, you always talk about the importance of relationships in your believes. But at the same time you go all out on a lot of people here. I don't see how that would lead to any good, relationship-wise, but resentment and frustration.
To my knowledge, I do not have a relationship with yourself or Gatekeeper. You are correct, I do value and I have spoken about the importance of relationships. In my best relationships I similarly talk about religion, politics, behavior, and the viewpoints of my family, friends, co-workers, or anyone that I interact with. You don't? 'We' do it at the dinner table, in a car, over the internet, in bed, at work, and even in a foreign country. I further appreciate it when others challenge, rebuke, or praise my beliefs and behavior. I can tell you this: I have met with a few who don't, and I often see relationships that are broken, mangled, and destroyed. You can't force a relationship, but if you hold your tongue to keep one, then the currents will come and blow it away.
I value the teaching of the venerable author in the Blue Man Group, which essentially stated that people tend to frequent an internet cafe to message with the people who are not there, yet to not interact with the people that they went there to drink coffee with. I am afraid that is very true. So I try to make foreign relationships based on my personal relationships, and personal relationships based on my relationship with foreigners. In case you are confused: just because we have exchanged words does not mean we have a relationship, and in my relationships we rest assuredly do exchange a wide flavor of words.