Perhaps the way it should be seen is that we must answer to both God and Man. We must answer to God because He is all-knowing, but yet we must answer to Man because he is
not all-knowing.
Just because we have (or think and claim to have) a personal connection with God and are intimate with God doesn't mean we should do as we please, without regard for what others think. We would otherwise be doing what others think is immoral, irrational, illogical, senseless, nonsensical, ridiculous, despicable and inexplicable. It may even be true that what we are doing is
inexplicable. That's because we haven't explained ourselves. The idea that one will never join the army, never serve as a soldier, never give one's life to serve and protect a nation, may well seem like the most ridiculous act non-Christians can imagine. If a Christian hasn't thought this through seriously enough, our non-Christian peers may well be right -- this view cannot be justified.
If we can't explain ourselves, then perhaps there really is
no explanation for our behaviour.
Our behaviour and beliefs can't be justified. This is where false spirituality begins. It is a feeling that one understands the universe and the cosmos better than certain other people, but a view that cannot be justified. Those who see us as senseless, reckless and driven by nonsensical imaginations when we think like that may well be right -- we really can't justify that kind of reasoning. If our reasoning doesn't work, then maybe we haven't spent enough time and effort thinking it through. Perhaps we should change the way we see things.
Christians can fall for the trap of being "copy cats." That is, you adopt a view or belief that other Christians have without realising that the issue is a lot more complex. There is a temptation to conform and do what others do. There is a tendency to think that what
others think is the right thing for
you to think as well. Furthermore, just because of something others think is wrong, doesn't mean it's wrong for you too.
This is the trouble with thinking that there is a set of rules that applies to everyone.
The idea that no Christian can ever serve in the army because of moral qualms is a bit extreme and radical. Serving in the army is not inherently wrong if you think about it. You may, perhaps, join the army for a very short time in order to accomplish a small objective that is part of some greater, altruistic purpose. Who can judge you and say that you went in there because you wanted some bloodshed?
Only God would know your real intentions.
Just because of what we think is right, doesn't mean we should confuse people by doing and thinking the bizarre and extraordinary. Political correctness is still on the Christian agenda -- the duty to make Christianity properly known and understood.