The thing is that, for middle easterners, Eloh & Allah arnt much different. Its more like different pronunciation of same concept. What Muslims/Jews & Christians differ in is model of God, not God. Christian God begets a son, Judeo-Islamic God doesnt. Its like I say,"Tom is a singer". And you say."no he isnt". It will be hilarious to say that singer & non-singer Toms are different people. We have just got different models of "the same tom" in our heads.
The present Christian concept of God, I believe, evolved into a habit that resulted from people not understanding what the early Christians really meant by "Son of God." This Jewish site, I think, explains it quite well.
My Jewish Learning: Christianity's Historical Context
A lot of people compare the Christian concept of God to Roman and Greek paganism. It comes from the idea of Jesus being God-incarnate, or what you said, Jesus being literally "begotten" of God, a product of procreation. The problem with that theory is that nowhere in the New Testament does it explicitly say that Jesus was God. Nor does it say that Jesus was a product of procreation.
Rather, the name "Son of God," I believe has much to do with what was happening in the Jewish religious culture of the time with hero-worshipping:
By the early first century C.E., more than just Greek language had fully impacted Jewish life and thought in Israel and the Western Diaspora. Retelling their traditional stories in Hellenistic and Roman terms, many Jews began to think of their ancient heroes such as Moses and Abraham, as well as less well known figures such as Enoch and
Melchizedek, as divine men. Moses and Melchizedek were attributed miraculous births; Abraham became known, along with prophets
Elisha and
Elijah, as a miracle worker; Enoch, transported into heaven, took on the role of future judge of the world.
Jesus, to many in the first century, was a so-called "wonder worker."
It is also not surprising--it is in fact quite "Jewish"--that those who followed Jesus saw him as a wonder worker, recognized that his birth signaled something special, and even believed that after his death he was raised from the dead. If he was the Messiah, surely he would be raised. Jewish messianic belief at the time, and even now, incorporated the idea that the Messianic Age is marked by the
resurrection of the dead.
The title of "Son of God" probably didn't mean that Jesus was God or that he was a product of procreation just like for human children. It meant that he was one of God's heroes.
The understanding I get from this is that Jesus wasn't worshipped as God. Instead, he was worshipped as a
hero, just like the Greek heroism that was influencing Jewish religious culture at the time. He was called "Son of God" because God himself was a hero, but yet God chose to show some of his own heroic qualities through a human being. Jesus was God's earthly and human representative.
Jesus didn't call himself God. He called himself the "man from heaven." Even Paul called him the "man from heaven."
No one has ever gone into heaven except the one who came from heaven -- the Son of Man. John 3:13
The first man was of the dust of the earth; the second man from heaven. As was the earthly man, so are those who are of the earth; and as is the man from heaven, so also are those who are of heaven. And just as we have borne the likeness of the earthly man, so we shall also bear the likeness of the man from heaven. 1 Corinthians 15:47-49
Jesus' name in Greek is Iesous and means "YHWH rescues." A person who rescues is a hero. Jesus came to "rescue" people from something, but he was doing it on God's behalf. The one who sends another to the rescue is himself one who rescues. The head of an operation, campaign or pursuit takes the credit.
Later Christians forgot that the "Son of God" title was hero worship, and instead mistook Jesus as the worship of God himself.
Naturally, the concept of the Trinity evolved. Father, Son and Holy Spirit stopped being names and labels of things that God did, just like the 99 names of God in Islam and names like Adonai, Shekhinah, HaShem, Shalom, etc. in Judaism and became the three persons of the Trinity.
For example, Adonai means "Lord," HaShem means "the Name" (ie. the Tetragrammaton), Shalom means "Peace," etc.
Consider this verse at the end of Matthew where Jesus announces the Great Commission:
Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptising them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Matthew 28:19
Notice how it says "the name of," as if it is more important for people to recognise the name and the meaning of the name than the entity or phenomenon to which the name refers.
Father, Son and Holy Spirit could have been used in the same way as the 99 names of God in Islam and the corresponding names of God in Judaism, especially considering that Jesus' name in Greek means "God rescues" and how Jesus' name might have been used by the early Christians.
Why do you think Christians pray in Jesus' name? I wouldn't be surprised if Christians themselves didn't understand this. It's likely because Jesus' name actually means "God rescues." This has obviously been forgotten over the centuries and Christians pray in Jesus' name out of habit without actually understanding what his name actually means.
The question of whether Christianity really associates "partners" with God is a question of what the names Father, Son and Holy Spirit really meant to the first-century Christians. The doctrine of the Trinity was instituted in the fourth century, and due to a separation of 300 years between the first Christians and the Christians at the time of the Council of Nicaea, there's no way of being sure if the institution of the Trinity doctrine is truly representative of the Christianity of the first century. Contemporary Christianity isn't representative of first-century Christianity. What we have now is more of a habit, not the spiritual experience itself.
If it weren't for the rift between Judaism and Christianity, as well as the clinging to the traditions of the Trinity, Jesus' name, which means "God rescues" could have been placed in the same category as Adonai, HaShem, Shalom, Shekhinah, etc. as well as Islam's 99 names of God. It could be the same with the so-called Father, Son and Holy Spirit.
But anyhow, the purpose of this thread isn't to discuss the concepts, names and labels of God in the Abrahamic faiths but the antics of suicide bombers.