Wil said:
No as Path indicates we don't really care what you think....ooo was that to straightforward? Let the politically correct police find the code. We are not asking whether you deem me or anyone else to be a Christian, the question was "Do you call yourself a Christian?" We aren't judging others in their path with Jesus in this regard.
I saw why you said this and was sad to see your reply. There is another way. Why not CARE what a person thinks, yet understand that nobody lives the same and thinks the same? If someone is offended by me, or thinks I am or am NOT a Christian, or being evil, or that I am going to heaven or hell, then I sincerely want to hear it and understand their viewpoint. I care what every person thinks whether I agree or disagree with it. If I or another person is filthy in manufactured or self serving thoughts, I still care about it.
I don't think it is a play on the definition of 'care'. One way is, "I see what you think, but I don't care what you think" and the other is, "I care what you think, but I don't think the same." If 'caring' is synonymous with 'loving' or 'thinking of' then the first way seems accurate. Afterall a person chooses their own thoughts and beliefs and tends to love the ones they've chosen. But if 'Love' or 'care' is a verb and we are to 'care' for others with our minds, then I submit the latter is a better path.
I find the mention of politically correct police is a well placed diversion. By stating that a person does not care what another person thinks, a person is just saying that they are the police and judge of their own thoughts. So it is not a matter of stating something a certain way (i.e. 'politically correct')... instead it is a matter of whether or not to listen to another person and accept their thoughts. So it is NOT the police over what a person says, but it is the police over what a person listens to. The only policing there might be against spying or not respecting a person's privacy... which would be kind of pointless on an overtly public forum. An individual chooses what an individual listens to, as well as says.
In a way, the question being asked in this thread has the same perspective with ownership of beliefs. Realize that before a person speaks that a person has first judged. So this thread asks me to judge for myself whether or not I am a Christian. Would that be a judgement of what I choose to read, study, and value... or a judgement of my deeds, fruits, and what I say? I recognize that I am the absolute WORST judge over whether or not I am a Christian. The worst. People can't glorify or condemn themselves. (Well, they can, but shouldn't) If I want to convey to a person a set of beliefs then I use the word 'Christian', but I'd prefer to say that I am a disciple, a student, or a follower, to remove the self-judgement of whether or not that I am.
I agree with Path_of_One that God or Christ is the best judge of whether or not a person is Christian. Besides being the source or definition of it, I imagine the Father and Jesus in heaven have an all-seeing perspective that is far better. But starting with the immediate disciples... shouldn't I consider each of their perspectives? Then how about Paul's? How about those Saints? A church? My neighbor? My brother? How about my enemy? Shouldn't I care what my enemy thinks? Do I even know what my enemy thinks? Do I even know what my brother, neighbor, church, or an alledged Saint truly thinks? How about whatever Paul was rambling on about? How about Christ and God... does anyone really know what they think? I know best what I think, and relative to whether or not I'm a Christian (or anything) it is the one perspective that I care the least about. I know less about others but care more about their perspective.
From another viewpoint, consider that it may actually be a compliment if someone judges and says, "You are not <being> a Christian". For example if you are repulsed by a person's stated beliefs, wouldn't it be more of an insult if they turned and judged that you are exactly the same as them? I have yet to find a person that thinks exactly, absolutely, the same as me or any other person. I question whether it is possible.